Words are Gifts

Life Stories

If my parents were around they would have been chief mourners.  Mama met Mrs. O in the early 1960s, when she was a young teacher in Takoradi, she lived with her father, then. 

Mr. O’s passing has been a blow to our family, too. We became neighbors and grew up with their children. Many fond memories of our childhood are shared anytime we meet. For some of us the stories are still fascinating.

When we went to share our condolences, Mrs. O told us many interesting stories about the past. Some of the stories we had heard once or twice before but were now being retold with more important and meaningful details. Is it because we are older that she felt the need to share them with us? Or was she just reminiscing because she had just lost her husband? She has a superb memory for her age and even remembers dates and names. We kept nodding and trying to relate what she was narrating to what we already knew.

She would start, “I guess you knew that…”

That got us thinking;

“Oh, that is why Daddy did this.”

“Now we understand why Mama said that.”

We had the opportunity to ask her many niggling questions. The answers filled the gaps of stories we knew but were still unclear, some of which we had packed away, as we had no clue if anyone knew about them.

Many stories get lost when our dear ones leave us. I hope we can salvage some more about our parents and our childhood from Mrs. O after all the celebrations are over.



6 responses to “Life Stories”

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    Catherine Nash

    So important (and in some cases affirming) to share stories. Lucky you to have that opportunity.

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  2. Yes, the stories are so important. My dad is filling in lots of the gaps for me in our family stories. Enjoy the opportunity.

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  3. “Many stories get lost when our dear ones leave us.” This is so true and so tragic. It’s so wonderful you had the chance to hear some of those stories from Mrs. O. Thank you for this beautiful slice!

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  4. Hmmm. This line about stories has me pondering. Part of the gift of the Slice of Life has been the ability to capture stories in a way that I know I’ll treasure. Thinking also of Vovome and her gift of Abelempke stories to Kojo. You’ve inspired us, J.

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  5. This moment was a gift I’m sure.

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  6. Your visit in itself was a gift. You a blessed to have such strong bonds on your life to connect you to your past.


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I am am Elementary school teacher at an International IB School in Accra, Ghana, West Africa. I write with groups of writers, such as Teach Write.


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